Many people might think that holiday sex, to spice thing up, would be difficult. The main reason for this is that there are quite a large number of things that need to be done during the holiday season.
While it can certainly be challenging, it doesn’t have to be impossible. Though it could take a certain amount of effort, there are a few simple tips and tricks you can use to keep the holiday season steamy.
Make The Time For Dates
One of the biggest reasons that the holiday season mightn’t be as steamy as we want is because many of us are often too busy. During the festive period, the majority of us will be spending a significant amount of time around friends or family. Alongside this are work, present shopping, and other responsibilities.
This could mean that we often lose track of our sex life or don’t take the time for it. However, making the time for dates could be a highly recommended tip. Taking the time to spend an evening alone together could be the most effective way of keeping things hot and heavy.
There’s quite a large number of things that you could do, although you’ll have to make sure that you and your partner both enjoy it. Putting aside one evening a week for a date night comes highly recommended, as it not only gives you the chance to get hot and heavy but also to keep the spark going.
If you are in holiday mode, why not try some games? Couples games can bring out your playful side.
Get In Some Quickie Holiday Sex
Quickies are something that many of us forget about. However, they can be one of the easiest ways to get steamy when you’re short on time. This could mean that you shouldn’t have to worry about the sex taking too long, as getting it done quickly is one of the main goals.
You could consider having a quickie when the kids are being looked after by an aunt or an uncle downstairs. While you’ll have to take a certain amount of care with this, it could still be a wise choice for many of us.
If you’re feeling a little kinky, then you could always consider public sex. Bathrooms, rooftops, and much more can all be apparent areas to do so. If you lack in places to try it, you could consider doing it in the car.
Try Some Holiday-Themed Roleplay
Roleplay has been a recommended option for spicing up your sex life for quite some time. This also extends to the holiday season, with there being a variety of themed roleplay scenarios to choose from. For example, you could play ‘Sex with Santa’s Little Helper’ and a few other roleplay games.
While you might want to go out and buy some props for your roleplay, it could still be well recommended. This could be one of the more adventurous ways of spicing up your sex life year-round, so why not give it a go over the holidays?
Try Something New
The holiday season is a great time to try some new things. However, this typically extends to new restaurants, vacation spots, and much more. But you could also extend this to the bedroom. While holiday-themed roleplay may be one way to do this, there could be a variety of other things to choose from.
You and your partner could come up with a list of new things that you’re interested in trying. Why not turn these into a checklist and try each of them out during the holidays?
Have Morning Holiday Sex
Since when has sex been just a night-time activity? Since your evenings could be packed with a variety of things to do during the holidays, this might mean that you wouldn’t have time for sex. Alongside this, many of us simply mightn’t have the energy once we’ve got everything done.
However, that could still leave some of your morning open, which could make it a recommended time to have sex. This could mean that you might have to wake up a little bit earlier, although it could be worth it.
As an extra tip, it’s worth waking up slightly earlier than your partner to give yourself a quick clean. This should be relatively fast, as you might just need to wash your face and brush your teeth to get rid of any morning breath. This could then be a spontaneous and fun way to kick off the day without needing too much work.
While having holiday sex might seem like hard work, it doesn’t have to be. Though you’ll have to put in some effort, it should be much easier than you would have imagined. One of the key parts of this could be communication, which is true across any aspect of a relationship.
While you’ll be spending a lot of time with friends and family over the holiday season, you shouldn’t forget to make time for your partner. By working together and making sure that you’ve got some alone time with your partner, you should be able to keep the romance alive during the holiday season. Alongside this, you can ensure that the holidays are as steamy as possible.