So much attention gets paid to the various tricks and seduction tips men can use to attract women (don’t get us started on negging) that people regularly ignore the fact that women want to be seductive too! Often, society tells women to be quiet and demure. Women are told to sit back and wait to be seduced. But no longer! Today we’ll discuss seduction tips meant for women, no matter your sexuality or experience level.
Make Eye Contact
One of the most effective seduction tips is, when you see someone you are interested in, try to catch their eye. Being able to get and keep eye contact signals your interest, and you can gauge a lot about their interest by the eye contact they make back with you. If you’re in close enough proximity to the person, a good tip is to actually look for your own reflection in their eyes. Always be aware of their comfort level, as too much eye contact can cross the line from seductive to creepy in the blink of an eye.
Work In Physical Contact
Touch is the perfect, non-verbal way to make sure the person you are trying to seduce knows that you’re into them. We’re not talking excessive physical contact or anything inappropriate, but a hand on the arm speaks volumes. Another great way to work in subtle physical contact is by sitting next to someone while you talk and letting your thighs lightly touch. When combined with seductive eye contact, you’ll have them eating out of the palm of your hand.
Be Self Confident
Confidence is key in successful seduction. This can be one of the trickiest tips to master, though. Practice makes perfect, so don’t be afraid to just go out there and flirt with no specific purpose in mind. Confidence has nothing to do with your physical size, your hair, your makeup, etc, but feeling good in your own skin does make a huge difference. Liking yourself signals to other people that you are work liking, too. The person you should always seduce first is yourself.
Find a Signature Scent
Smelling good is a turn on, no matter who you are. But finding your signature scent, one that will remind people of you when they smell it, is a top notch seduction technique. Go easy with it, though, and just use a small amount on a handful of your pulse points (not all of them!) – the insides of your wrists, behind your ears, the base of your throat, behind the knees, and the insides of your elbows.
Use Your Mouth
No, not that way (at least, not yet!). The lips are one of the most seductive parts of a woman’s body, so highlighting them to draw your target’s attention is always a great idea. This shouldn’t be anything obvious, but wearing a flattering shade of lip gloss and occasionally licking your lips sends the same message in a much more subtle way. What’s more seductive than getting the person you’re interested in to stare at your mouth and think about what you can do with it?
So whether you’re a seasoned professional seductress or just starting out, honing your techniques can help you achieve whatever goal you’ve set for yourself. The seduction tips we’ve discussed are also perfect for bringing the romance back to a long term relationship that may have lost its heat. Regardless, the most important place to start is by believing in yourself. You’ve got this, so go out and get yours!