Not everyone has the stamina for marathon sex. For those who actually do, though, it can not only be a great way of getting physical exercise but can also help you and your partner get closer together. There’s also the fact that the two of you can simply have fun fucking. Of course, when you guys actually getting down to it, you may want to take a look at the different techniques and positions that you can use. Some of the classics work well here, but the key is really mixing them up a bit so neither of you gets too tired or sore.
Doggy Style and Its Variations
It may seem like doggy style is a standard position, but it can end up being quite a useful one if you’re going to have sex for hours on end. It’s because you can vary the position in numerous ways. For example, one partner can stand on all-fours on the bed whilst the other partner stands on the floor and does them from behind. Later on, you could move onto the bed itself. Both of you can then be standing, one of the partners leaning against the wall (both the receiver and the giver can do this… though not at the same time!).
Stop, Revive, Survive
If you feel that the penetrating partner is doing all the work and perhaps needs to lie down a little…Well, reverse cowgirl works very well! The person being penetrated can sit on the top and do a bit of work for the moment whilst the other gets a rest and can just enjoy what’s going on. You can then both flip around into missionary and give the other partner a rest.
Missionary can also help keep one of you active for a bit if one wants to remain standing for a while: this includes the penetrating partner standing up and the other one on lying on their back on the bed… Of course, this depends on how high the bed is! And you don’t even have to do it on a bed. There are a lot of perfectly good kitchen tables which have had this sort of action on them, so you may want to consider them as an option!
A short loo break, a glass of wine or some other non-sexual activity can let you catch your breath and continue with renewed vigor in a few minutes. If you are planning on going all night then it’s important to take the odd break to help with longevity.
Extra Tips for Lasting Longer
Essentially, you may want to vary your speed a bit to ensure that the two of you get the most out of what you’re doing. Giving each other oral sex along the way, can bring both partners to attention if the interest is waning. Men probably generally want to last as long as possible, so slowing down the speed a bit will help to keep going for a little bit longer. There are also cock rings which can help to keep his cock hard over the marathon.
If a woman is drying up as bit down there, a silicone based lubricant so smooth the way for longer lasting, marathon sex. A woman naturally lubricates in the earlier stages, but after a while might need a little help, to prevent her getting sore from the adult action. Be generous with lube and slide into home base.
Another important thing to keep in mind is that you’re allowed to take breaks. Starting off slow is also a good idea as you will both want to get into the mood. Remember, you’re both planning for hours of fun, take your time and pace yourselves.