If you haven’t experienced anal sex before, even the word itself can sound intimidating. You may have even had bad first time experiences like myself and so many other woman have. But after you get past that daring first time of doing it with someone that you’re comfortable with, it’s a different kind of feeling that you will begin to crave. If done properly, anal sex isn’t painful.
Another plus of anal sex is that your man will go nuts when he is hard underneath you, you can satisfy that little devil desire inside of him when he’s watching you ride his cock while you play with your clit, he’ll look up at you like you’re a goddess. Most men seem to have such curiosity towards anal sex that you will at some point in your life come across the opportunity, when that opportunity arises you have a chance to show off and make him go crazy.
If you yourself are curious then you have cum to the right place. A good way to start off is to buy sex toys such as a butt plug. There are so many different shapes and sizes so you are bound to find one that you are comfortable with, start off small. My first butt plug was pink and glowed in the dark so spice it up and make it exciting! It will be a strange experience having something up your ass for the first time so just be patient with yourself.
Make sure that you have plenty of water based lube and pick a tasty flavour, you never know when you’re going to end up with it in your mouth! Once you’ve played around with your toys and feel ready to discover what anal feels like my advice to you would be to make sure you’re in control. Most women that I know (when it comes to anal) prefer when they’re on top and able to guide the cock inside themselves, at least for the first few times.
Let your man know that he also needs to be patient so that you can have a pleasurable experience, communication is key before and during your session. So get on top and really relax your muscles down there. Once his cock is inside of you just sit idle and adjust to the intense but satisfying feeling of him being inside you in this new way, let him fill you up and soak it all in. Playing with yourself during anal will also amp up your orgasm so use fingers or a vibrator to stimulate your clit for ultimate climax. My partner and I used a vibrator while doing cowgirl and it was one of the best orgasms I’ve ever had, everyone deserves to feel that kind of extreme sensation. Have fun and remember, when in orbit, a patient well guided rocket will ensure that the trip to Uranus is a success.
