A Straight Man’s Guide To Pegging

There have been a variety of things that have been mainstays in porn, with these being somewhat representative of real-life sex. For much of this time, anal has been one of the more popular forms of content, as well as something of a fetish for many straight men.

Over the past few years, there have been a variety of off-shoots to this. Recently, one of the more common has been pegging. Despite its growing popularity, the act is something that many men may not know about. Of those that do, many will naturally be quite hesitant about it.

There are a variety of reasons for this, although it shouldn’t be the case. Instead, there can be a significant amount of satisfaction with pegging, both for straight men and their partners. However, this is only the case when done right and safely. To do so, there are a few things every straight man interested in pegging should know.

What Is Pegging?

Put simply, pegging is the anal penetration of a man with a strap-on dildo. Typically, this is done between heterosexual couples, with the act flipping the conventional power dynamics in the relationship. However, this has also been used in a variety of other relationships, such as between gay women, who may use a strap-on to penetrate their partner.

Many straight men may be surprised by the fact that pegging has become increasingly popular among heterosexual couples. However, there has been a variety of reasons why this has been the case. Naturally, sexual enjoyment is one of the most obvious, with men taking advantage of the sensation that it offers.

The majority of this is because men have a G-spot in their rectum, which can typically be stimulated with pegging. Alongside this, there can be a variety of other attractive sensations felt during the process. Coupled with this is the fact that it allows couples to become much more intimate than they may already have been.

How To Safely Take Advantage Of Pegging

Regardless of gender, anal sex is something that requires a significant amount of patience. Alongside this, there can be a variety of things that you’ll have to take into account. The majority of this is focused on preventing pain, as well as any other potential mishaps.

This also applies to pegging, which can often have some other considerations to take into account. Despite this, many couples may not know how to properly take advantage of pegging, especially if it’s their first time.

While the process may seem as though it’s complicated, it doesn’t have to be. Instead, the majority of heterosexual couples should take advantage of a few tips when they first start pegging.

Shop As A Team & Start Small

It can be essential to shop for a strap-on as a team, as there are a variety of things that both of you might want to consider. During the shopping trip, you’ll need to make sure that you find the right sex toy for both of you. Typically, it’s recommended that you choose a smaller product, especially if it’s your first time.

Alongside this, your partner should get used to using it. When doing so, they’ll need to focus on wearing the strap-on, how to use it properly, and much more. There’s little that’s worse than a rogue strap-on during pegging, as it could cause some pain. This should mean that knowing how to use it properly is essential.

Use Lube

This shouldn’t need to be said, although there’s quite a large number of people who may overlook this. However, lube will be one of your best friends during pegging and will be vital to making sure that everything goes smoothly and, hopefully, pain-free.

This will make sure that the strap-on easily enters the anus without causing any pain. As such, it’s recommended that you use a lot of it before starting. You could also try a few other tips and tricks to loosen up your anus before using the strap-on, such as fingering, and more.

This is also why it’s recommended that you use a smaller strap-on when you initially start being pegged or pegging.

Talk

Communication is vital to every relationship, with this being seen in a variety of ways. This is especially true with sex, with talking being crucial to pegging. As such, you’ll need to speak with your co-pegger continually during the process, with this being seen before, during, and after the act.

During the first few times that you’re pegging or being pegged, you should speak to your partner about how fast they should go, how hard, and even how deep. This should make sure that you’re both on the same page and having an enjoyable time instead of you being in pain during the process.

Regardless of how prepared you are before pegging, it can often feel slightly awkward during the first few attempts. This shouldn’t worry you, as it can affect quite a large number of people. However, perseverance and communication can mean that you’ll be able to enjoy pegging much more over time.