Your Guide to Fetishes

Guide to Fetishes


Fetish wear, toys and accessories

Fetish wear, fetish toys & fetish accessories are a great way to add spice to your after-party adventures, free yourself of the mundane routine of your sex life and to rekindle the sexual fire between you and your partner. Me and Mrs. Jones has a wide variety of fetish wear, toys and accessories available for your next sexual adventure.

Fetish Wear

Fetish wear refers to extreme and/or provocative clothing/accessory designed to provide additional creativity to your sexual adventures. These clothes aren’t usually included in ones daily attire. Common fetish wear items include cat suits, corsets, skirts, dresses and sexy shoes. The two most common materials found in the realm of fetish fashion are leather and latex.

Wearing fetish clothes can bring some extra oomph into your sex life. Me and Mrs Jones have a wide variety of fetish fashion for both women and men, helping you to create a tingling sexual experience. There is no wrong way to wear fetish fashion. We highly recommend you choose clothes which provide comfort as well to ensure a great experience.

Nipple Stimulators

Nipple stimulators are fetish toys that provide additional fun by heightening your enjoyment during intercourse. These sex toys are specifically designed to stimulate your nipples – either in a mild or wild way, however you like it! These can include nipple clips and clamps, nipple pumps and while these are predominantly designed for the downstairs regions, vibrators and sensitising gels are also good for this.

Swings & Slings

A sex swing or sex sling is a type of harness designed to allow sex while hanging above the ground. In particular, it allows for a man or women to be suspended by a swing whilst their respective partner moves around them engaging in sexual intercourse.

Swings can come in the form of a traditional swing, door swing, body swing, and fantasy swing. The body swing is suspended from one partner’s body. The door swing is mounted on a door. The fantasy swing is suspended from an eye bolt in the ceiling. 

Sex swings may be useful to those with a disability to enjoy a wider range of sexual activities than their disability can allow. People with muscular weakness or joint pain may use a sex swing to reduce the strain on affected muscles or joints. Wheelchair bound partners are also able to engage in sexual activity using a sex swing suspended from a hoist.

Sex swings can provide additional creativity and make your sex more thrilling and effortless. They enable greater freedom of movement during intercourse and assist with challenging sex positions. For your safety it is very important to follow the provided instructions when using a sex swing.

Whips, Paddles & Ticklers

Whips, Paddles and Crops Guide

Whips, paddles and ticklers are simple but fantastic tools for sexual domination by an individual over his/her sexual partner. They can be perfectly combined with other fetish wear, toys and accessories.

There are a variety of different types of whips, paddles and ticklers. Whereas wide paddles cause a satisfying slap without the sting and are a perfect choice for beginners, sleek leather whips are more popular with advanced players.

Whip It Good

The whip is the classic tool for BDSM, with the recipient playing a submissive role and the individual brandishing the whip is the dominant. It’s a good idea to start with a smaller whip with strands of leather and a short handle, and only then a couple is proficient should a longer handled, more dramatic whip be used. 

Do take care however, and not that it is important to know how to avoid certain dangers and make sure you are not harming your partner in any way. Always have a safe word (something non-sexual and distinctive) so your partner or you know to stop if things get too much. 

What is a Paddle?

A paddle is a sex toy with a handle and two flat sides usually made from wood or leather. Often used as part of BDSM or bondage play, paddles give the recipient a gentle or strong smack on the fleshy part of the thighs or bum. In BDSM, pain is used as a way to enhance sensation and pleasure.

When to Use Ticklers

Many couples looking for enhancement of their regular sex routine are looking for a soft option to move onto. Sensory exploration can incorporate the non-intimidating use of the tickler. These are both soft yet exciting and really easy to use as a novice.

Blindfolds & Hoods

Blindfolds and Hoods can provide additional thrill for your sexual play – whether you desire a mysterious or dangerous ethos, masks can help you intensify your sexual pleasure. Wearing a blindfold mask during sexual intercourse heightens anticipation, enhances sensitivity and can perfectly be used as an entry level into the world of bondage. If you’re looking for something more advanced our fetish hoods might be the right choice for you to satisfy your fantasy.

Cuffs, Restraints & Gags

Bondage toys like cuffs, restraints and gags are designed to restrain ones physical movements. This enables a man or women to have full control over their partner. These tools are easy to use and definitively give an extra kick into your bedroom.

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